Watch Night Began In 1733, Not 1862
In the United States, the first Watch Night service was held on November 1, 1770, at Old St. George’s Church. It was an integrated service, where freed blacks and whites sat AND worshipped together—singing, praying, exhorting, and converting souls.
Evolving Without My Crockpot
Leaving a place where I’d invested so much meant that I’d be submitting to uncertainty, forfeiting control of my life plans and stepping into a realm of absolute newness that might be transformative.
The Other 5 Things I Need Young Professionals to Know
I have literally seen people enter the realm of death because of Bridget's Famous Egg Salad. So, I ALWAYS proceed with caution. You should too!
The First 5 Things I Need Young Professionals to Know
Get clarity on what you are supposed to do. Refer to that job description. Nothing is worse than becoming engrossed in tasks that your employee doesn't value!
You Gotta Work Twice As Hard: How Cultural "Survival Tactics" Implicitly Perpetuate Cycles of Unworthiness and Exploitation, Pt. Two
Untethering one's self from the glue of resentment, I believe, seems to be found in the simultaneous work of recognizing and assessing one's worth and worthiness.
You Gotta Work Twice As Hard: How Cultural "Survival Tactics" Implicitly Perpetuate Cycles of Unworthiness and Exploitation, Pt. One
Now, I was being told, inadvertently, that my size, skin color, and perceived confidence could quite possibly create a deadly trifecta, making me a target for prejudice, discrimination and racism, even MORE than my peers who were also Black.
INSECURE The Season Four Finale and My Thoughts About and For Y’all in No Particular Order
I hope y’all see the importance of mental health and wellness, ‘cause everybody on this show needs a damn therapist. And for the last time: You cannot expect your spouse or significant other to bring you out of your depression.
INSECURE Season Four, Episode Nine and My Thoughts About It in No Particular Order
Give Ahmal more lines, please. Naw...just give him his own episode, too. Thanks!
INSECURE Season One, Episode One: At the Root of Resentment, A Flashback, A Review
29-year-old Issa is tired of the same old, same old. Five years out of college, she is working at the non-profit, We Got Y’all, amidst a sea of white people, who are out-of-touch with the realities of people of color.
INSECURE Season Four, Episode Eight: Expectations, Identities and Lawrence’s Episode (and my thoughts about it all in no particular order)
This was, by far, the most artistic, poignant episode this season. Stellar filming and writing; Barry Jenkins-level stuff.
INSECURE Season Four, Episode Seven: Molly, Mountains, Mindfulness and My Thoughts in No Particular Order
I shole can’t wait till they find LaToya’s ass!
INSECURE Season Four: Episode Six Epiphanies, Observations and Stuff
I’ve said it once and I’ll say it again: Retreat home for clarity. Every major decision or purchase I ever made came after I talked to my momma.
INSECURE Season Four: What I Know So Far in No Particular Order
Most of y’all like Issa, because most of y’all are like Issa. (Read it again. Slowly.)